I think people are just taking offense that you seem to be claiming you are the best. It is easy to construe that you are belittling often the years of hard work people have put into other servers. Obviously every server wishes to be the best. But that does not mean you need to be rude about other peoples.
Having a pleasant spawn is not indicative of the quality of the server. It is a show of your skill as a builder.
Your position is on the Cloud Server List is also not a definitive on your server quality. It is a great tool to help expose players to your server.
You are able to mute people should you click on their profiles. But as you say in your welcome and you did in this thread:
Which people have done, I don’t think anyone has really been out of line If you are going to shoot down every other server in the history of blockheads and claim a title that is not necessarily claimable by anyone then of course there will be a defensive response.
Anyway welcome to the forums have a