Unfortunately, you can’t demand respect on forums. Players choose to give it or not, and it doesn’t even go hand in hand with whether they agree with you or not. Listen, I don’t disagree with some of what you are saying… I have been deeply frustrated, at times, reading what seems to me to be over-policing of inconsequential infractions. I don’t think there is an intent to be rude, just to be authoritative in sometimes not the most delicate way… and I’d be lying if I said that it hasn’t annoyed me at times. However, being so hyper aggressive against this is also doing no one any favors.
Again, you can’t demand respect from anyone. You can ban people from your own servers and make specific rules against behavior that you don’t like there. But on forums, you can’t really make anyone do anything they don’t want to do (within the confines of what Milla feels is permissible). And as much as we all know that everyone should just flag and move on… there will always be players who feel the need to point out small transgressions.